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Hi, I’m Jesse - intimacy guide & bodyworker - and I really love what I do!

 

For over fifteen years, I've built a dynamic practice exploring the creative potential of erotic love.

 

I work intimately with remarkable men: leaders, creators, adventurers, fathers, husbands, lovers — from their mid-twenties to nineties.

 

Those who find their way to my practice come seeking many things — the healing magic of loving touch, holistic approaches to intimacy, a soft place to turn in times of change, and the desire to cultivate a more positive relationship with themselves, and in partnership.

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 My journey began in 2011, after moving to NYC to work for a women's rights non-profit. Within a few days of living here, I met my first sacred sexuality teacher on the dance floor. I embarked on a multi-year apprenticeship learning the art of neo-tantric bodywork, and hustled as a S*W+er in a fast-paced, power-driven city.
 
Crafting sensual, sacred, and safe space is an art form. I've journeyed wide with seasoned teachers and adept outlaws of the erotic arts. I’ve fostered a deep book of holistic erotic play. This vocation is often misunderstood, but I consider it my great honor to be entrusted with the most powerful and tender parts of another.
 
What I've come to know is this: wonderful erotic intimacy is key to us — perhaps one of life's greatest gifts and humbling challenges. It asks us to become better lovers, not just in skill, but in who we are — in presence, courage, wonder. Learning how to make love to life itself
 
The work I offer is experiential and hands-on — sensual bodywork, clothing-on karezza-cuddling, remote hypnotherapy, and plant medicine ceremonies and integration support (coming soon).
Please note, I no longer offer kinky explorations.
 
I work with a small number of gentlemen at a time, and prioritize ongoing work over single sessions. I choose my clients as carefully as they should choose me. 
 
This is a unique relationship, not a service — devoted to your goals and growth. In my experience, the connection itself — attuned, genuinely caring, grounded in clear boundaries — is almost always the most transformative part of all of it. 
 
Because we don't grow alone. We open up in the presence of someone who truly sees us — and I have been shaped by the men I work with just as much as they have been shaped by me.
 
My hope is that you join me as a fellow explorer into the deeper realms of relating, into the mystery of Eros. I'll share the terrain and the tools. And together we'll exchange field notes on life and longing.
 

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MY TRAINING
~giving credit where credit is due~

  • 'Urban Tantra' Teacher 
        Barbara Carrellas 
  • Sexological Bodywork Practitioner

        Association of Sexological Bodywork

 

  • Yoga Tantra Teacher 

        Agama Yoga 

  • Integrative Hypnosis Coach

        Melissa Tiers / Integrative Center of Hypnosis​

  • Divine Feminine Hypnosis Practioner

        Shauna Cummins / National Guild of Hypnotists

  • Sexual Freedom Hypnosis Practioner 
        Kaz Riley 
  • NLP Core Transformation Advanced Training
        Tamara Andreas

I owe a deep gratitude to dedicated teachers outside of formal credentialism. Thank you for your wise guidance & friendship: Candice, Matt, Ian

  • Thai Yoga Massage, Level 1
        Lotus Palm
  • Integrated Energy Therapy, Level 3 
        Minka Brooklyn
  • Craniosacral Seminars, Level 1
        Life Energy Institute 
  • Shadow Tantra: Getting Conscious with Kink Seminar

        Seani Love / School of Erotic Mysteries 

  • Dominance Development Seminar

        Miss Couple / La Domaine Esemar​

  • Clown, Level 3
        Brooklyn Comedy Collective

  • 5 Year Erotic Arts Apprenticeship

        Shivas Angels 

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