FAQ
How many sessions do I recommend?
I'd advise you to trust your own guidance on this one. I work with folks for a single session, a few sessions, a few times a year. I have a few working relationships that started over a decade ago. Sometimes all you need is momentary support. Other times you may benefit from the commitment and momentum that comes with having a guide (& friend) that believes in you and is there to support you. I believe what spiritual teacher, Adyashanti, so impeccably states: “If I do this work honestly, I’ll put myself out of work as fast as possible."
Do I work with women and couples?
I work with folks of all ethnicities, gender & sexual orientations, body types, and abilities.
I'm open and receptive to working with women / vulva-owning folks.
What I've found to be most essential, through my experiences as a client, is to take notice of how do you feel around a guide. Do you feel safe, seen, heard, and respected?
I do not currently work with couples.
Package Idea: A Semester with Jesse — 4 to 10 Sessions
Not a self-help program. Not therapy. A guided exploration spread across a semester, paced to your life.
Fewer people are dating. Fewer are having sex. And almost everyone is longing for something they can't quite name. According to Harvard professor Arthur C. Brooks, we have been "deskilled in the deepest mysteries of life”.
Love and sex remain what they have always been — primordial, ungovernable. This is not a problem to be solved but a mystery to be lived.
A curated series of sessions designed to relearn love and sex — from the inside out. To stop waiting for it to arrive and begin cultivating it within.
Session 1 — Your Values (60 min virtual) We begin beneath the surface. Goals tell you where you want to go. Values tell you why it matters. Your values are not what you believe — they are what you do when no one is watching. They are the organizing principle of your identity. Know them, and you know yourself. Live in alignment with them, and life feels coherent. Using NLP values elicitation, we map the unconscious drivers that actually shape your choices, your longing, your life.
Session 2 — Clothing-on Karezza & Cuddling (in person) Most of us have been intimate with someone before we've felt truly close to them. We let someone into our bed before we let them into our inner life. Physical intimacy is often the easier risk — being more honestly known is the harder one. This session gently reverses that. Trading performance for presence, and creating space for real emotional connection to land.
Session 3 — Your Hidden Beliefs (60 min virtual) Using hypnotherapy and NLP parts work, we befriend more of your inner life — the beliefs that hold you back and the parts of you that already love freely, play openly, and delight in intimacy. Not to fix anything, but to come home to yourself. You don't need more willpower. You need less inner war and more room to enjoy being alive.
Session 4 — Sensual Bodywork (in person) By now, we have maps and we are not strangers. We've built something real. Sensual loving bodywork — not as a service, but as an integration. A genuine meeting — nothing owed, nothing performed. Two people, fully present, fully human. This is the true creative nature of erotic love in practice.
Sessions 5–10 continue at your pace, deepening whatever calls to you.
By the end of our semester together, you leave with more than memories of good sessions — you leave with a living curriculum. Something to draw from, return to, and build upon long after we're done.