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Sexy Heart Coaching
My continued interest in this work, and the path of Eros, grants me the liberty of reflection and maturation. Where’s the turn-on? That spark? The deeper stirrings?
I’ve devoted a great deal of my life force energy to foster, fortify, and forge a deep book of erotic play. Learning how to refine all my senses to study the nuanced dynamics of ecstasy and spirit. Journeying wide with seasoned masters and adept outlaws of the erotic arts.
What I keep returning to is that the spirit of Eros is trying to remind us of something far more important than sexual satisfaction. I endeavor to say that the path of Eros is a profound and paradoxical invitation into an awakening at the level of the heart.
Eros is erotic love, from the physical to emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and mythical. It includes sex but also transcends it.
Revealing our tremendous capacity to feel, to connect, to express, and explore wildly. It’s supposed to be fun and healthy. A way to honor your lover and your love. Eros is a sacred privilege that grants us the chance of life itself.
Yet our current framework reduces Eros to a stimulant. Our intimacy stays superficial. Renowned for ravaging our common sense. We want more and more. We try to suppress it. We take it too far. It’s never enough.
The potent force of Eros leads us into the unavoidable rhythms of transcendence and disillusion, joining and separation, love and chaos. Bringing out our keenest vulnerabilities. We bury our heart under unresolved emotional wounding and internal neglect.
The call into Eros and it’s shadow is a call into our most raw creative process. It opens us up fully, and brings everything into being. Undressing the best and worst in us all. Like a relentless lover who deeply understands that our soul craves variety in order to learn and grow.
We can learn to embrace it all into our deeper heart that is present, full, and lives with the mystery. And begin to access our sexuality, relationships, and love as a form of enlightenment training. Erotic love is about devotion. Clarify and nourish the wholeness of ourselves and each other, and make love for real.
Perhaps the one experience we would rather not leave this life without having known fully.
What happens during our coaching call:
We’ll begin our call with a simple meditation to help slow down, activate your imagination, and connect to what matters most to you.
I approach our time together as a collaboration. We may focus on sexuality, relationships, self-love, or any area of your life. I refer to you as the expert of your experience. You get to decide what is helpful, healthy, and healing.
My hope is to equip you with experiences and tools that support you to direct your own discovery and growth.
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Hypnosis - A refined blend of guided meditation and somatic experiments. Tap into your subconscious reactions, beliefs, intuition, & creative solutions. The core principle of hypnotherapy is that all hypnosis is self-hypnosis meaning you are in the driver seat at all times. I believe it’s as practical as it is magical.
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Parts Work - Each of us have many different parts within. Instead of suppressing or pushing away the parts that seemingly hold you back. Learn to befriend your inner critic, child, wise advocate. Offer your mentorship in helping these parts become the true guides they are meant to be.
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NLP Core Values Elicitation - Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a collection of techniques used to optimize your brain's built-in plasticity to unlock & update your personal map of reality. By consciously cultivating your core values, you create more awareness to take action, and make decisions aligned with what really matters to you.
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Long Distance Energy Work - Sometimes there is no substitute for the healing power of physical touch. However our bodies are very energetically sensitive. I’m available to channel loving healing energy over long distances. Just like how you can feel love from loved ones even if they are oceans away. I can also teach you how to do it.
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Mindful Masturbation Practice - Self-pleasuring is usually a quick and efficient affair. But it can become an essential part of your wellness routine to create new patterns in your arousal, pleasure, and orgasm. I’m avail to guide you in a mindful masturbation experience, and offer you new choices based on your goals. (Not avail for a first session)
I've found that we cannot will, or think, or technique our way into transformation.
It is about getting real and doing the work. It takes great courage to embrace the vulnerability beneath unwanted behaviors inherited from childhood, culture, and an ancient legacy of trauma. To carry a spirit of fluidity in the cycles of success and failure. (Or enlist clown logic and enjoy reveling in your shit.) And to put the force of your whole being into your desires, and embody the things you care deeply about.
I also believe that the most badass punk rock thing we can do is to let go of the need to “fix” ourselves. Nothing needs to change. Instead we change the way we pay attention to life. When we free our awareness, and sense our heart at a spiritual level, we become available for a radical insight into the true nature of love.
A love that is you and bigger than you. A kind of love that can’t be won, lost, or corrupted. That is resilient, innocent, unconditioned; and is ever-emerging, ever-deepening, ever-redeeming, ever-lasting. Under all circumstances. No matter what.
Not as a nice idea, a fleeting experience, or an intellectual process. It may not be instinctual at first. But with practice, a deep felt-knowing begins to awaken in our heart that is self-evident and relational-illuminating.
The work is always a paradox, always a dance, always Tantric.
My mentor believes (as do I) that any teacher working in expanded states fields could serve well to state their motives that drive their work with others.
This offering is a creative act born from a sincere desire to understand what creates a healthy and sacred sense of self. My own experiences of being utterly undernourished, and yet a refusal to capitulate to fear. As well as a tenacious trust that the sexiest thing ever is recognizing the wholeness of who you really are.
I'm currently in an apprenticeship helping at psychedelic-assisted therapy retreats since 2020. I’ve spent countless hours learning from guides and healers who are much further along the path than me. Their guidance has helped clarify my thinking and approach in my practice. I’m grateful to those that hold me accountable, and make it possible to journey so abundantly in this chapter of my life.
I've also seen how any tool can be a weapon if you hold it right. Sexual energy and all consciousness expanding energies are both compelling teachers and intoxicating elixirs. I seek to practice power with, not power over.
I’m not selling any pre-packaged guarantees. I have no final answers. How boring! And I claim no special powers. What I have is a willingness to listen deeply, and a desire to live this life steeped in the unknowable mysteries of love.
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