Kinky Tantra Coaching

Are you curious about kink? Even if you don’t consider yourself “kinky."

What I love most about kink is that it creates a sacred "in-between" space where we can momentarily leave behind old identities, self-imposed censorship, disempowering societal values; and step into the world of imagination.

Kink is not therapy but it can foster personal growth. When we explore the mystery of the present moment, we create a practice and even an art form of self-discovery and a healthy release for our multi-dimensionality.

Kink doesn’t have to be serious business (it can be really silly & loving) nor is there one true way to explore kink. It does require trust, respect, and an emphasis on enthusiastic consent.

What happens during our Kinky VIP session:

It's the same structure as the VIP session (please review it here). Our time together is divided into 3 parts: coaching, playtime, and bodywork.

What is different is how we weave elements of kink throughout the session. Kink can mean many different things to different people. In this session, kink will be defined as intentional power play or top/dominance and bottom/submission (D/S).

Power exists in every relationship. Our conventional understanding of power is often associated with nonconsensual coercion and force. In D/S, we have one another's well-being & mutual enjoyment as our top priority (even if it doesn't necessarily look that away from the outside). Not only can it be so, so sexy to play with power, it can shed light on how we unconsciously give it away or take it in the 'real world', and perhaps inspire a new kind of power that fosters a better future for our world.

I only provide as a top or dominant in session space. I find much pleasure in expressing my top energy and consider it an intentional practice to continuously reinvent myself.

Why would one want to explore submission? Submission can be a very hot experience. It can also be a huge relief. We are socialized to presuppose manliness with dominance, which is extremely limiting. And exhausting! The pressure to succeed, to perform, to have it all & all figured out all the time. Together, we can take off your social armor, explore your complexities, and express forbidden emotions.

Submission doesn’t have to be about being punished, humiliated, or crying out in pain. It can include any and all of these things, if that pleases you. It can also look like noble submission, think of a knight training in order to serve his beloved queen, guided by a burning desire to serve something bigger than himself.

Whatever it looks like, I believe true submission takes great courage. You are choosing to give me your power & in return for your generous gift, I will infuse it with notes of my beauty, wisdom, and grace. I’ve had many clients share that it’s actually the most powerful they’ve ever felt!

There are a few areas of kink that we can explore during part 2 & part 3. Please be mindful that we will not be able to explore all these possibilities in one session. We will pre-negotiate our activities and limits before our session.

Surrender Collaring Ritual: Let me guide you in this meaningful meditation to activate our power playtime with the influence of a symbolic object (perhaps if we continue to play, you will earn your very own).

Goddess Worship: when you acknowledge and serve the Goddess in me, you connect to your higher self as well.
- Worship me with words, gifts, and your hands. I love my heels, stockings, and feet to be adored and rubbed. If you prove your sincerity, you may be granted permission to worship my sweet ass.

Bondage: is a wonderful way to slow down, to be restrained & held, and surrender even more deeply. This is typically more sensual than pain driven but we can explore both.
- Rope bondage, mental bondage, and orgasm control. (Available for all body types & abilities)

Impact Play: Explore how pain can intensify pleasure & makes you come alive. Find your growing edges and rewire your emotional relationship to pain and hardships. It can be sensual, rhythmic, and surprisingly stress relieving; with moments of encouraging intensity and soothing relief. (I do not push limits during the first session)
- Spanking, slapping, flogging, thuddy or stingy sensations

Feminization: Are you curious to try on more feminine aspects? Gender is a social construct so let's play with it. I'll transform you (with or without force) into my beautiful slut with lipstick, pantyhose, and/or a pink thong. This is not about humiliation (but it can be if that turns you on).

Kinky Goal Setting: For those who want to explore how reward & punishment can help you achieve your goals. (Only available for packages).

You are welcome to bring toys but please let me know beforehand. Strap-on play is available for 4hr sessions.

Do you have specific desires or fantasies? Let's see if/how we can incorporate it into our session - I want to celebrate what turns you on. I'm open to role playing but I do not follow scripts and I must find mutual enjoyment in your ideas.